Frequent checking in with others (e.g., 'Are you still single?') Expresses loneliness and boredom ('Im so bored right now and lonely asf') Uses humor and flirtation to engage ('Lol bar huh idk maybe') Directly asks for in-person meetings ('When', 'Right now lol whatcha wanna do')
Desire for connection and validation Seeking immediate responses and engagement Flirtation as a way to build rapport
Inconsistent responses from others Lack of engagement or interest from potential matches
Quick to respond, often within minutes
Open to gifts, likely to respond positively if they feel a connection
Flirting and playful banter Questions about personal interests and preferences Direct invitations to meet up
Moves quickly from online flirting to suggesting in-person meetings, often using humor and directness to gauge interest.