Frequent self-deprecating comments (e.g., 'Only ok sorry I bothered u') Seeking validation from others (e.g., asking 'Are you happy') Defensive responses when feeling criticized (e.g., 'if you dont like me why are u still chatting me up')
Desire for connection and validation Interest in shared activities (cars, sports, etc.) Curiosity about the other person's life
Negative feedback or disinterest from the other party (e.g., 'Sounds boring') Feeling dismissed or unappreciated (e.g., 'Not impressed')
Delayed responses when feeling uncertain or criticized
Uncertain; may feel insecure about receiving gifts or compliments
Questions about personal interests (cars, hobbies) Inquiries about emotional states (e.g., 'Are you happy')
Tends to escalate defensively when feeling rejected or criticized, leading to withdrawal or self-doubt