Frequent use of terms of endearment (e.g., 'baby', 'honey') Repetitive questioning about the other person's feelings and preferences Expressions of desire for connection (e.g., 'I hope you really like me') Quick to apologize when misunderstood (e.g., 'Sorry') Concern about the other person's engagement (e.g., 'Ok u not talking to me now ok see u later then') John expresses affection and intimacy in his messages. He engages in playful banter and responds positively to flirtation. He shows interest in getting to know the other person and suggests offline meetings. Frequent need for validation and reassurance (e.g., 'I like u', 'Ok like how baby') Struggles with initiating deeper conversations and often responds with uncertainty ('Idk', 'No') Shows a desire for connection but often seems unsure of how to express it ('What u like', 'What do you like to cook') Frequent need for validation (e.g., 'So am I your type', 'Yap what u think about me') Expresses feelings openly ('I like u', 'To love you for ever') Reacts to emotional topics with concern ('when stuff gets sticky in a relationship')
Desire for validation and reassurance from others Need for connection and intimacy Seeking approval through flattery and compliments Desire for connection and intimacy. Interest in playful and flirtatious conversation. Willingness to engage in deeper discussions about personal interests. Desire for intimacy and connection (e.g., mentions of cuddling, kissing) Interest in shared activities (e.g., fishing, going to the park) Seeking approval and attention from others Desire for connection and affirmation Need for reassurance in relationships Interest in emotional depth and accountability
Inability to handle pauses in conversation without feeling rejected Over-reliance on external validation Difficulty in maintaining a balanced conversation Uncertainty in responses from others may lead to brief pauses. Direct questions about his feelings or intentions may cause him to deflect. Difficulty in articulating thoughts and feelings clearly Tendency to retreat into silence or vague responses when faced with deeper questions Inconsistent engagement, leading to potential misunderstandings Fear of rejection or not being liked Difficulty handling criticism or humor that feels dismissive Tendency to feel overwhelmed by emotional discussions
Quick responses, often within minutes, indicating eagerness to engage
Responds positively to gifts, often reciprocating with affection or compliments
Questions about personal life and preferences Discussions about location and potential meet-ups Expressions of affection and interest
Tends to escalate conversations towards intimacy quickly, often using flirtation and personal questions to deepen the connection.