Frequent checking in with others ('U there', 'How r u today') Repetitive questioning about personal interests ('What do u like to do for fun') Expressions of affection and compliments ('Ur a very attractive lady', 'U have beautiful eyes') Desire for reassurance ('I really missed u today') Frequent checking in with others (e.g., 'U there beautiful', 'Hope your not mad') Expresses concern about others' feelings (e.g., 'Hope to see you soon', 'I could really fall for u') Repetitive messages indicating a need for reassurance (e.g., 'Going in hospital in morning', 'Don't no sweetheart') Expresses a desire for a long-term relationship ('I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with') Frequently seeks validation and reassurance ('U there', 'Why did u call me a liar') Shows concern about being alone ('I haven't thought of that', 'Guess I would want to no what makes people think the why they think') Frequent compliments to others, indicating a desire for validation. Repeatedly asks questions about others' interests and feelings, showing a need for connection. Expresses concern about being brushed off or ignored, indicating insecurity. Часто использует комплименты и фразы, чтобы привлечь внимание. Выражает желание встретиться и проводить время вместе. Постоянно спрашивает о местоположении и интересах собеседника. Repeatedly asks how others are doing, indicating a need for reassurance. Expresses feelings of being in the hospital, which may indicate vulnerability. Uses flattery ('U r a beautiful lady') to seek connection.
Desire for connection and validation Need for reassurance in interactions Interest in romantic engagement Need for reassurance from others Interest in building relationships Desire for connection and intimacy Need for reassurance and validation Interest in understanding others' feelings and thoughts Desire for companionship and connection. Need for reassurance and validation from others. Interest in shared activities and fun experiences. Стремление к близости и общению. Потребность в подтверждении своей привлекательности. Желание быть услышанным и понятым. Desire for connection and validation. Need for reassurance in conversations. Interest in physical intimacy as a way to bond.
Responses that indicate disinterest or lack of engagement ('That's nice to hear', 'Try harder') Pauses or lack of response from others Health issues causing anxiety (e.g., infection in toe) Repetitive questioning that may come off as insecure (e.g., 'What can I do to win u over') Insecurity about self-worth ('Wish I could find someone to put up with me') Fear of rejection ('I'm wasting my time then I guess') Responses from others that indicate they are not ready for deeper conversations. Lack of engagement from others can lead to feelings of rejection. Чувство неуверенности, когда собеседник не отвечает. Частые упоминания о своем состоянии в больнице, что может вызывать беспокойство. Fear of being perceived as weird or forward. Insecurity about how others perceive him.
Immediate follow-up after pauses, often repeating questions or statements
Positive acknowledgment and appreciation for gifts ('Thank you for the gift dear, I love it')
Compliments and flattery Questions about personal interests and activities Expressions of affection
Increased frequency of messages and repetitive questioning when feeling insecure or ignored