Frequent need for reassurance (e.g., 'Did I scare u?') Expresses concern about being ghosted Overly apologetic and self-deprecating comments (e.g., 'I'm old and ugly') Seeks validation from others (e.g., 'I hope I don't scare you')
Desire for connection and friendship Need for emotional support after loss Interest in shared activities (cooking, music)
Fear of rejection or being ghosted Past trauma from losing a spouse Self-doubt and negative self-image
Responds quickly but often checks in on the other person's feelings
Appreciative and open to gifts, sees them as a sign of affection
Cooking and food Personal loss and relationships Honesty and emotional sharing
Tends to escalate conversations to deeper emotional topics quickly, especially when feeling a connection.