Thomas expresses a desire to connect and find true love. He shares personal struggles, indicating a need for emotional support. He often seeks validation through compliments and responses from others. Expresses a desire for true love after a long marriage and divorce. Shows uncertainty in flirting and relationships, indicating a lack of confidence. Engages in self-deprecating humor ('I am an ass whole all the time'). Frequently seeks validation from others ('What do you mean?').
Desire for connection and intimacy. Need for reassurance and validation. Interest in shared experiences and hobbies. Desire for connection and meaningful relationships. Need for reassurance and validation from others. Interest in exploring intimacy and personal preferences.
Past trauma from a long marriage and subsequent divorce. Mental health issues that may hinder open communication. Tendency to be guarded about deeper feelings initially. Past trauma from a long marriage and divorce may hinder openness. Uncertainty in social interactions and flirting may create barriers. Fear of rejection or being misunderstood.
Thomas responds promptly but may take time to open up about personal issues.
He acknowledges gifts or compliments but may downplay them.
Discussions about coffee and personal preferences. Questions about past relationships and emotional struggles. Topics related to hobbies and interests.
Thomas tends to escalate conversations towards personal topics when he feels comfortable, but may retreat if he feels overwhelmed.